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A CHILD'S JOURNEY THROUGH PLACEMENT
by Vera, MD Fahlberg
." From Ours (now Adoptive Families
magazine) (March/April 1992)...Dr.
Fahlberg's insightful, empathic,
respectful, and nurturing stance toward
the children, and toward the adults who
are their guides on their journeys
enhance the value of her practical and
action-oriented suggestions for
minimizing the trauma and dealing with
the effects. ...ACJTP is a rich
compilation of knowledge and techniques
for understanding, working with, and
planning for children in placement. It's
successful in meeting its goals of
leading readers toward informed
decisions and providing a reliable
reference to which readers can return
when faced with questions or problems...
Parents who want to help children build
healthy attachments and self-esteem to
minimize the risks associated with
complex placement experiences will find
this an important addition to their
resources."
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ADOPTING AFTER INFERTILITY
by Patricia Irwin Johnson
Guide to help in deciding if making the
commitment to building a family by
adoption is right for you. Explores
infertility losses, making the adoption
decision and choices about what kind of
child to parent, the adoption process to
pursue and parenting in adoption.
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ADOPTING THE HURT CHILD: HOPE FOR
FAMILIES WITH SPECIAL-NEEDS KIDS: A
GUIDE FOR PARENTS AND PROFESSIONALS
by Gregory C. Keck, Regina M. Kupecky
Few families wishing to adopt are able
to bring home a happy and healthy
infant, for most adoptions today involve
emotionally wounded, older children.
Presenting a comprehensive picture of
all aspects of adoption, this is a
beneficial guide that integrates social
and psychological issues with other
issues that interrupt adopted children's
normal development. This updated edition
includes information on foreign
adoption.
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AFTER SORROW COMES JOY
by Cherie Clark
RECOMMENDED BY
ABW STAFF
Cherie Clark is a courageous, giving
woman who embodies a love that
transcends color, race, religion and
politics. She is fiercely determined to
give all children a chance in life that
fate has seemingly cheated them out of.
Cherie founded the International Mission
of Hope, now a thriving and respected
organization, funded solely by
donations, which is involved in feeding
and caring for children and elderly
people, helping with disaster relief and
reforestation, and facilitating the
adoption of some 250 children every
year. Cherie's group has also built a
rural health care clinic in My Lai. She
and most of her family currently live in
Hanoi and operate child care centers
throughout Viet Nam.
NOTE: You can also purchase this book
directly thru IMH at
http://www.imh-vn.org/books.htm.
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ARE THOSE KIDS YOURS?: American Families
With Children Adopted from Other
Countries
by Cheri Register
RECOMMENDED BY
ABW STAFF
Explores prospective parents' making the
commitment to a multi-cultural family
and talks of the challenges of providing
children with a proud sense of their
birth culture and heritage.
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BEING ADOPTED: THE LIFELONG SEARCH FOR
SELF
by David Brodzinsky
Combines psychological and educational
theory to construct a model of the
normal yet unique stages and adjustments
that adoptees make as they grow from
infancy to adulthood.
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FAMILY OF ADOPTION
by Joyce Pavao
Pavao is a nationally known family and
adoption therapist who works with
adoptive children and their families.
Her authority and insight come from her
combined experience both as a
professional therapist and as an adopted
child. In The Family of Adoption, Pavao
describes the grief processes, dilemmas,
and potentials for healing of birth
mothers and adoptive parents.
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INSIDE TRANSRACIAL ADOPTION
by Gail Steinberg, Beth Hall
This book provides creative, confident,
pro-active and provocative guidance for
parents who are experienced veterans or
who are considering transracial adoption
for the first time. Whether through
domestic or international adoption the
authors offer direction for building
close, loving, and very real families
consisting of individuals who are proud
and culturally competent members of
differing races.
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HELPING CHILDREN COPE WITH SEPARATION
AND LOSS
by Claudia Jewett Jarratt
This book offers step-by-step guidance
for any concerned adult who wants to
help a child talk about, cope with, and
recover from a loss.
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HOLDING TIME: HOW TO ELIMINATE CONFLICT,
TEMPER TANTRUMS, AND SIBLING RIVALRY AND
RAISE HAPPY, LOVING, SUCCESSFUL CHILDREN
by Martha G., M.D. Welch, Mary Ellen
Mark (Photographer), Niko Tinbergen
Holding Time was developed by Dr. Welch
for autistic children, and has since
been shown to be remarkably successful
in helping all children, including those
described as "normal".
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RAISING ADOPTED CHILDREN: Practical
Reassuring Advice for Every Adoptive
Parent
by Lois Ruskai Melina
RECOMMENDED BY
ABW STAFF
This book covers current adoption
research in child development,
psychology, sociology, and medicine,
while focusing on the experiences of
adoptive families.
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RAISING YOUR SPIRITED CHILD: A Guide for
Parents Whose Child Is More Intense,
Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, and
Energetic
by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
Recently, temperament traits have come
to the forefront of child development
theory. In Raising Your Spirited
Child, Mary Sheedy Kurcinka's first
contribution is to redefine the
"difficult child" as the "spirited"
child, a child that is, as she says,
MORE. Many people are leery about books
that are too quick to "type" kids, but
Kurcinka, a parent of a spirited child
herself and a parent educator for 20
years, doesn't fall into that trap.
Instead, she provides tools to
understanding your own temperament as
well as your child's. When you
understand your temperamental
matches--and your mismatches--you can
better understand, work, live,
socialize, and enjoy spirit in your
child. By reframing challenging
temperamental qualities in a positive
way, and by giving readers specific
tools to work with these qualities,
Kurcinka has provided a book that will
help all parents, especially the parents
of spirited children, understand and
better parent their children.
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RAISING YOUR SPIRITED CHILD WORKBOOK
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REAL PARENTS, REAL CHILDREN: PARENTING
THE ADOPTED CHILD
by Holly van Gulden & Lisa M. Bartels-Rabb
This book offers insight into how
adopted children commonly think and feel
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SUPPORTING AN ADOPTION
by Pat Holmes
Provides guidance for family and friends
as they try to give support and
encouragement to those who are trying to
build their family through adoption.
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TALKING WITH YOUNG CHILDREN ABOUT
ADOPTION
by Mary Watkins Ph.D. & Susan Fisher
M.D.
RECOMMENDED BY
ABW STAFF
This book answers many questions about
how children think about adoption and
how they incorporate adoption into their
world. It provides insights into the
process of dealing with the topic of
adoption with young children.
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THE LOST DAUGHTERS OF CHINA : ABANDONED
GIRLS, THEIR JOURNEY TO AMERICA, AND THE
SEARCH FOR A MISSING PAST
by Karin Evans
A chronicle of the author's journey to
adopt a child from China. Through this
process Evans takes a deep look at what
information is available for those
hoping to fill in the missing pieces of
their children's histories.
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THE OPEN ADOPTION EXPERIENCE
by Lois Molina & Sharon Kaplan Roszia
An authoritative and reassuring guide to
the issues and concerns of adoptive and
birth families through all stages of the
open adoption relationship.
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THE RUSSIAN WORD FOR SNOW (paperback)
by Janis Cooke Newman
A tale of one mother's adoption of a
Russian child. Not to be used as an
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THE RUSSIAN WORD FOR SNOW (hardback)
by Janis Cooke Newman
A tale of one mother's adoption of a
Russian child. Not to be used as an
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THE WHOLE LIFE ADOPTION BOOK
by Jane E. Schooler
Adoptive families face unique issues
regarding attachment, adjustment and
identity. This book provides
encouragement and practical information
to help families succeed in forming
relationships.
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TODDLER ADOPTION: THE WEAVER'S CRAFT
by Mary Hopkins-Best
RECOMMENDED BY
ABW STAFF
This is a book about the journey of
building family through adoption of a
child between the ages of one and three.
The journey begins long before the child
arrives, and continues indefinitely.
This book explores the decision to
adopt, the preparation for adopting and
the adjustment to adoption of a
toddler.... The author discusses both
the exquisite joys of toddler adoption
and challenges that the majority of
families will probably encounter.
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WHEN LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH: A GUIDE TO
PARENTING CHILDREN WITH RAD-REACTIVE
ATTACHMENT DISORDER
by Nancy L. Thomas
RECOMMENDED BY
ABW STAFF
Reviewer: Mary, mom to 6 from Idaho
I have read many books on attachment and
bonding and found this to be the most
helpful. Nancy Thomas shares many
concrete ways to #1--help your child
improve his behavior and #2--help you
maintain a loving attitude toward the
child in the process. Patience, joyful
living, and 'smiling eyes' can be hard
when a child challenges every request,
but Nancy's tips make it so much easier.
My son is still quite young and his
attachment issues are mild, but I am so
glad to have these tools now before his
behavior is 'cemented'. The book is
helping us to maximize our bond to each
other right now, which of course
tremendously improves my son's chance
for a bright future. I recommend this
book to *anyone* who even wonders if
their child *might* have attachment
problem. Some of Nancy's tips have also
been effective with my well-attached
children.
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